quite frankly sounds like too much "negativity" is taken for granted, eg not explicitly favouring helpful behaviour from a young age can be taken as a sign of standard acceptance of such behaviour as a level that is as basic as the ground we walk on, whereas showing dislike to antisocial behaviour is the opposite of vip treatment as you call it, it 's being denied access to the party.
Amidst the whole positive/negative terminology I like to suggest and take into account that as bio-electric beings in an electrified world, we take a clue from ac/dc basics and come to realising that positive/negative always equals itself out, and aiming for more + generates an equally rising -, it takes a balanced steady and grounded flow to generate the energy, both on the wire & as wired as a person may get at times, so what if terms such as "toxic, inherently abusive, detrimental" take the place of what "negativity" is supposed to mean, it might clear matters like a thunderstorm in may, as we are evolutionary on the way to realising that abuse is not alfa
quite frankly sounds like too much "negativity" is taken for granted, eg not explicitly favouring helpful behaviour from a young age can be taken as a sign of standard acceptance of such behaviour as a level that is as basic as the ground we walk on, whereas showing dislike to antisocial behaviour is the opposite of vip treatment as you call it, it 's being denied access to the party.
Amidst the whole positive/negative terminology I like to suggest and take into account that as bio-electric beings in an electrified world, we take a clue from ac/dc basics and come to realising that positive/negative always equals itself out, and aiming for more + generates an equally rising -, it takes a balanced steady and grounded flow to generate the energy, both on the wire & as wired as a person may get at times, so what if terms such as "toxic, inherently abusive, detrimental" take the place of what "negativity" is supposed to mean, it might clear matters like a thunderstorm in may, as we are evolutionary on the way to realising that abuse is not alfa